Journal
What to do when Orgasms are elusive
If you've ever found yourself wondering why climax feels effortless for some people but elusive for you, you're far from alone. Research continues to show that many women struggle to orgasm during partnered sex, but it's rarely because something is "wrong" with their body. In this guest article, sexologist Isiah McKimmie explores why orgasms can feel out of reach and shares five practical, evidence-based ways to make pleasure more accessible.
How to initiate sex confidently
Why you can’t “just switch on” for sex and the power of transition rituals
Erections: not always on cue
You’re in a moment of intimacy and then suddenly, everything changes. An erection fades, the energy shifts, and what felt easy now feels fragile. For many couples, it’s not the moment itself that creates disconnection, but the meaning that gets attached to it. In this journal article, Isiah McKimmie, Relationship Counsellor & Sexologist, explores the real reasons erections come and go, and how to move through these moments with more ease, confidence, and connection.
Tips For Lovers: Introducing A New Toy
Why Variety Matters for Deeply Satisfying Long-Term Sex
Has sex ever felt a bit… flat? Like it’s lost its spark. In this journal, Relationship Counsellor & Sexologist Isiah McKimmie, explores why this happens and shares 5 strategies you can implement today to spice things up in the bedroom.
Exploring Cervical Orgasms
Cervical orgasms offer a deeper, full-bodied form of pleasure that many people with vaginas have never been taught to explore. While clitoral stimulation is the most common pathway to orgasm, learning how to stimulate the cervix can unlock new dimensions of internal pleasure, emotional release, and body awareness. This journal by Ruby Josif, Sex Coach, explores practical techniques to help you safely and confidently discover this deeply connected form of orgasm.
Why libido can get lost, and what genuinely helps it return
When sexual desire fades, it can feel confusing or concerning. In this journal, Relationship Counsellor and Sexologist Isiah McKimmie explores the real reasons libido decreases, how your body’s stress response influences sexual desire, and practical ways to naturally support and restore libido.
How To Use The Pelvic Serpent: For Pleasure & Tension Release
The Pelvic Serpent was designed for those who experience pelvic pain, tension and conditions that can cause difficulty enjoying sex and intimacy. Vulvodynia, Vestibulodynia, Vaginismus, Dyspareunia (painful intercourse), and postnatal perineal scar sensitivity; these are some of the many reasons our founder Rosie had in mind when she designed this wand.
Practical Tips: Telling Someone About Your Kink
So you have a kink and you want to explore it.
Maybe you’re in a long‑term relationship, maybe you’re seeing someone new, or maybe you’re just starting to feel your curiosity growing. You’ve decided it might be time to open up and share your deeper desires and curiosities with someone else.
Diving Into Your Dark Side: Exploring Kinks & Fetishes
Having a healthy relationship with your sexual desires and boundaries is essential. Acknowledging when you have specific sexual curiosities and interests reduces shame, improves relationships and actually supports self esteem.












