By Natasha Weiss

How To Give and Receive a Prostate Massage

The prostate can offer deep pleasure when stimulated. Whether you’re giving or receiving, Yinn is here to answer all your questions about prostate massage.

Why Prostate Play Is Calling Your Name

There are so many paths to pleasure.

For cis-men and people assigned male at birth (AMAB), there lies a secret treasure trove that can unlock new levels of sensation and mind-blowing orgasms. 

We’re talking about the prostate.

It’s time to learn all about the prostate and how to maximize pleasure by exploring it. 

Prostate 101

First things first, what exactly is the prostate?

Sometimes called the “male G-spot”, the prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland located between the base of the penis and the rectum. It’s responsible for producing and expelling semen. 

For many people, stimulating the prostate allows for deep pleasure and intense orgasms. People aren’t exactly sure why the prostate allows for so much pleasure, but many researchers believe it’s thanks to a collection of nerves that are attached to the prostate, penis and urethra. 

Stimulation and orgasm can help to activate these nerves, leading to intense pleasure.

What is a prostate massage?

One of the best ways to start exploring prostate play is with a soft, sensual prostate massage. 

As you can guess from the name, a prostate massage involves using a finger or a toy to gently massage and stimulate the prostate. This can be part of partnered sex or solo exploration.

During a prostate massage, some people release extra seminal fluid (the fluid that mixes with sperm, creating semen). This comes from the ducts of the prostate gland and is sometimes called “milking”.

For people with penises, anal play often gets ignored. But the prostate and anus are full of sensitive nerves just waiting to be stimulated!

Giving and receiving prostate massages

Whether you’re new to prostate play or you’re looking to get more out of it – Yinn is here to give you the down low with some of our hottest prostate massage tips.

You want to see your partner absolutely blissed out in the realms of pleasure? Read on.

  • Make sure your nails are trim and clean – we don’t need any cuts in there!
  • Start with thoroughly clean hands, you can also wear latex gloves for protection if you’d like.
  • Ease them into it. Communicate and ask them what they want to experience and what you’d like to do to them. Start slow, get them turned on by kissing, cuddling, and whatever tickles their fancy. 
  • Liberally apply lube around the anus.
  • Slowly insert your finger or a toy. You can take it in and out a few times, encouraging your partner to masturbate while you do so. 
  • When your finger is completely inside them, feel for a rounded lump about two inches inside the rectum, toward the root of the penis. Congratulations, you found the prostate!
  • Now gently massage it in a back-and-forth or circular motion. You can also apply pressure for a few seconds at a time and see how that feels for your partner.
  • You can simultaneously pleasure your partner in other ways. They may get an erection or ejaculate. Orgasms from prostate massages may last longer than ones just from penile stimulation. 
  • Some people experience “milking”, which is ejaculate that only includes fluid from the prostate versus other seminal fluids.

Tips for receiving a prostate massage:

  • Douching is absolutely not necessary, however, some people feel more comfortable doing it before a prostate massage. You can also thoroughly clean your rectum in the shower without douching if you prefer. 
  • Talk to your partner about any fears, concerns, and desires that you have around prostate massage.  Communication is sexy!
  • Take the time to get into your body by deep breathing, having your partner touch you, or starting with penis play. 
  • Enjoy – you deserve all the pleasure!

How to maximise prostate pleasure

How do you make the most of your prostate massage experience? Having the right equipment is a great place to start.

We said it before and we’ll say it again – lube is your best friend here. Yinn’s The Oil Based Lubricant is awesome for anal exploration, but if you’re going to use toys, we recommend The Water Based Lubricant, which is safe to use with silicone and condoms.

Speaking of toys, fingers are great for prostate massages, but you can level up the experience with a glass, crystal, or silicone toy.

Introducing The Nero, a medium-sized, dual-ended prostate massager and G-spot vibrator made from silky-smooth premium-grade silicone. Built for maximum pleasure, The Nero has a smooth head for prostate massage while its ridged end tantalizingly cups the balls. 

Choose your own adventure with ten-frequency vibrations of different intensities and patterns. It can also be used for G-spot and clitoral stimulation, just be sure to thoroughly clean it after anal play.

No matter what your prostate massage journey looks like, remember to slow down and enjoy this powerful practice!

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April 16, 2024