By Mikaela Knight
In our fast-paced modern lives, it's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, even when it comes to our most intimate moments. For those seeking a more fulfilling and holistic approach to sexual wellness, it's important to consider the profound benefits of slowing down your self-pleasure practice.

What is holistic sexual wellness?
Holistic sexual wellness encompasses a comprehensive understanding of our sexuality that goes beyond the physical act of sex. It embraces the emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of our intimate lives. Slowing down and bringing mindfulness and intentionality to your self-pleasure practices can create a more balanced and satisfying experience.

The Value of Slowing Down

1. Increased Sensual Awareness

Rushing through self-pleasure often leads to missing out on the depth and richness of physical sensations.

Slowing down makes you more attuned to your body, fostering a heightened sense of pleasure and self-awareness. This heightened sensitivity can transform your self-pleasure experience into something profoundly fulfilling rather than a quick orgasm.

Prioritise your pleasure by setting time aside to envelop yourself in the experience. Pop on a Yinn Spotify playlist, light a candle, wear lingerie if you desire and take time to admire and touch yourself in a mirror before reaching for the pleasure wand or vibrator.

2. Emotional Connection

Self-pleasure is an opportunity for self-discovery and self-love.

Slowing down enables a deeper exploration of your emotions, desires and fantasies, creating a stronger emotional connection with yourself. This intimate self-awareness can lead to a healthier relationship with your sexuality and improved intimacy with a partner.

Your mind is a powerful tool for enhancing arousal and pleasure. Take your desires and fantasies into your own hands and allow your fantasies to flow freely without judgement. If you’ve been interested in exploring anal play, the only partner you need is The Aura glass pleasure wand. Doubling as an anal toy with two different-sized blooming ends for beginners and intermediates alike, it’s your key to unlocking backdoor bliss. 

3. Stress Reduction

Mindful self-pleasure practices double as an effective stress-relief tool.

When you slow down and focus on the present moment, you engage in mindfulness, a proven technique for reducing stress and anxiety. Lowering stress levels contributes significantly to overall well-being and sexual health.

An easy way to introduce mindfulness is a mindful body scan. Start by gently caressing different parts of your body. Pay attention to how each touch feels, exploring your body's sensations and become attuned to what pleases you.

4. Enhanced Sexual Function

For those experiencing difficulty achieving orgasm, slowing down can be a game-changer.

It allows you to explore your body and what feels good to you to improve your arousal and pleasure responses. Experiment with various strokes, pressures, and movements. Try using different fingers, your palm, or even different parts of your body to touch and explore yourself.

We have designed our Luna pleasure wand to
bring a rich presence to the depths of you that long to be touched. Use the bulbous end to massage and explore internally and the pointed end to make love to the most nuanced places in your body, like the G-zone and A-spot.  

5. Deepening Intimacy

Holistic sexual wellness extends beyond your own sexual experiences.

Slower self-pleasure practices can help you better understand your desires and communicate them effectively to your partner. This open communication leads to more satisfying and intimate sexual relationships.

Consider keeping a journal to reflect on your self-pleasure experiences. Write about what worked, what you enjoyed, and what you'd like to explore in the future. This can help you connect with your desires and preferences. After your self-pleasure session, take some time for self-care. Hydrate, relax and engage in soothing activities like meditation or a warm bath to extend the sense of satisfaction.

Enjoyed this article? Read more on self-care in the Yinn Journal here.

- Y x

September 26, 2023