Masturbation is always a good idea - no matter your age or life stage. 


Whether you’re new to self-pleasure or you’ve been practicing for a while, it’s common to lose your sexual essence as you approach menopause. Body changes and hormone shifts can leave you feeling less turned on and orgasmic. So what’s the good news? You can take your sex life into your own hands (literally.)

We understand that delving into the world of self-pleasure in your forties and beyond can feel uncomfortable for some. It’s important to stop and analyse where these beliefs stem from; upbringing, education, religion, and mainstream media.

Too many of us have been fed the lie that sex is only to be performed with a partner for the purpose of procreation. It’s time you stopped fearing the opinions of others, after all, they won’t know unless you tell them.

Only you have the power to claim back your precious energy, vibrancy, and vitality.

Here are a few benefits of masturbating:

  1. Increases blood flow to your yoni
  2. Reduces stress
  3. Helps you feel sexy
  4. Improves self-esteem and body confidence
  5. Gives you the opportunity to learn about your body and find out what you like and don’t like without the need for a partner

If you’re new to masturbating, we recommend starting slow. The Luna wand and our deeply nourishing oil-based lubricant are the perfect pair to start. If you are menopausal, you will typically experience a reduction in natural lubrication. We recommend our oil-based lube because it remains slicker for longer while also moisturising and nourishing your yoni walls.

Why opt for a wand over a vibrator?

Well, there’s a good chance you’re already less sensitive than you once were and vibrators can further desensitise those delicate nerve endings.

Using a wand allows you to re-sensitise the vagina and clitoral network after potentially years of neglect. When you reactivate the yoni, you will experience increased natural lubrication, increased pleasure, and better orgasms. So what are you waiting for? 


Get the Luna and our organic oil-based lube here.

February 28, 2023